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Letters On
Musicianship & Mindset

Once or twice a week, I share my best tips on overcoming performance anxiety and self-doubt for a fulfilling career. Occasionally I also send out some gifts and let you know if I am working on something that might be of interest to you.
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The Joyful Musician Blog


Even After Therapy and Hypnosis: Singing Still Filled Her with Anxiety
Despite her experience and undeniable talent, she often felt disconnected from her voice. Some days, her anxiety showed up physically — tightness in the throat, sweaty palms, racing heart… Other times, it felt like her voice belonged to someone else entirely, creating a disorienting, almost out-of-body sensation. Her inner critic was relentless, especially during live performances. And even when things seemed to be improving, the sense of insecurity lingered.
Apr 196 min read


The Cost of Being ‘Professional’: Relearning Joy After 200 Concerts a Year
A French horn player in her 30s performing with a major orchestra, delivering over 200 concerts a year.
But even from that place of achievement, something vital had gone quiet:
She no longer enjoyed music.
Despite her outward success, she felt disconnected from the very thing that had once lit her up.
And she was preparing for two important auditions:
One for a prestigious commercial TV orchestra, and another for an even larger city’s top ensemble.
Apr 124 min read


Without the Pill, With the Power: A Surprise Solo in a Major Opera House
A classically trained opera singer with both a BA and MA in vocal performance, they had been performing professionally for over a decade. Their voice had a shimmering coloratura and an expressive depth that made it easy to imagine them on any of the great opera stages.
They were already performing regularly in a beloved opera choir.
But they hadn’t trained for years just to stay in the chorus — they wanted to sing arias under the lights, solo, centre stage.
Apr 113 min read


When the Spotlight Feels Too Bright: A Veteran Singer’s Debut Album Release
This amazing client was a seasoned singer and singing teacher in his 50s — deeply experienced, full of musical wisdom, and running a very full studio.
Between teaching and performing, he’d still managed to carve out time to create something deeply personal: His debut album.
After months of work, the release concert was on the horizon.
But instead of excitement, he was feeling uneasy.
He came to me for a single coaching session not to improve his singing, but to figure out how
Apr 113 min read


The Recording That Shook Her: Reclaiming Confidence in the Softest Notes
A gifted flautist in her early 30s had built a dream career: First chair in a major orchestra, well-respected by her peers, and known for her dedication and precision.
On paper, everything looked perfect. But under the surface, she was carrying a weight that made performing feel like a burden rather than a joy.
Years earlier, a careless, cutting comment from a conductor during a recording session had planted seeds of self-doubt.
Apr 104 min read
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